Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen. And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, with whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.
I love social media. It's given me so many opportunities to connect with people I otherwise might not even know. And the re-connections! To see how my childhood friends have grown and blossomed has been nothing but a blessing.
There's one feature I would like to build in, though- something that Christians could have installed on their accounts as a safeguard: a passion-delay option. When someone's feeling especially riled up, it would be great for a little screen to pop up with the following questions before they change their status:
Wouldn't it be nice if this feature existed? Wouldn't it be nice if everyone used it?
Did you pray about this?
Are you being kind? Even to your enemies?
Are you helping the situation?
Are you sure this is true?
If an unbeliever reads this, will it draw them to Christ?
What is your honest motivation?
Is this truly a prayer request, or is this an attempt to find a loophole big enough to slip gossip through?
Are your words causing unity or division?
Would this be better leftunsaid?
Is anyone going to be hurt or stumbled by this?
Who will benefit from this post?
Would this be better said privately?
Are you SURE you don't want to cool down before you post this?
It makes me cringe when I see someone I love post remarks on FB or Twitter that are clearly meant to be a barb at someone else I love. Do they realize the rocks they throw hit other people in the crossfire? Are they aware of the pain they're causing? Do they worry that the world is watching us tear each other apart? I can't know.
Here's what I do know- it's making me much more aware of the words I use in social media. When I feel compelled to complain about service in a store, I am going to remember that it's someone's livelihood. When I want to insult a person's outfit, I'm going to remember that the wearer is someone's child. When I feel compelled to take a stab at someone's church leadership, I am going to remember the congregants. If I wanna say something about a celebrity or politician, I'm going to remember that person has a mother, a child, or a spouse who loves them. Above all, I'm going to try to be really mindful of the fact that Christ died for all sinners, not just me.
I can't control what other people write, but I can be more careful about what I write. Will you join me in an effort to make social media a brighter place?
May God bless us all.
(Courtesy of His Girl )